 | Notice how we tend to judge our own actions by our intentions, and we judge others' intentions by their actions. |
 | Oh, how often do we say: "It might have been," when we could have said, "I acted, and it happened." |
 | Knowing others' perceptions of yourself is to know yourself better. |
 | Accomplishment and fulfillment happen when we remember: "There's always a next step to take . . . and another . . . and another . . . toward your goals. |
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- Our own identities are shaped by:
- o Our comparison of ourselves with others
- o Our relationships with others
- o Our sense of feeling useful
- o Our hopes and fears
- o Our own life's many stories
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